Creating something new in your life

If you are dealing with a devastating loss...
If your life is not going in the direction you'd like it to...
If you have personal or business challenges that seem impossible
to solve...

Hiring a coach can make all the difference in creating something new in your life. Working with me as your coach, you will:

  • Complete unresolved grief from death, divorce, or any
    major loss
  • Get to the heart of the matter and regain your passion for living
  • Generate new ideas and opportunities on an ongoing basis
  • Create a one-step-at-a-time plan to guide you in taking
    effective actions

Whether your next step is making major changes, rebuilding your life after loss, or building a business, I can lead and walk beside you as you take charge of your life.

Please contact me if you are ready to create something new in your life.

If you want your life to change, you first must take care of yourself. This usually means doing something that creates a major shift in how you have been thinking and feeling about what is happening and how you are dealing with it.

Oftentimes it means doing something you have been avoiding at all costs. But when the cost becomes too great, the next action of taking a stand for your own well-being seems to magically empower a strength you didn’t think was possible.

Whether you are suffering from an abusive situation or devastating losses, or are needing to make a major life transition, the shift from being the victim of circumstances to being in charge of your life is really the same process. It includes and sometimes becomes a defining moment in your life: standing up for yourself, telling the truth about the situation, and accepting powerful support.

What creates a defining moment—a turning point that causes a dramatic change in habitual daily patterns of living, that reveals your true character?

The hardest thing I ever did and a defining moment of my life was to leave my childhood sweetheart and husband of twenty plus years. I left when I came to realize I was truly powerless over the addictive behavior being acted out.

After trying everything I knew, I did the one thing I was avoiding. I took full responsibility for my own well-being. I told the truth that no matter what I did or didn’t do would not change what was happening. I stopped telling him what to do or not do. Instead I did something different. I asked for help and received the support of others going through similar struggles. I came to understand the only thing I could do to change my situation was to leave it.

The strength and courage it took to make this choice then empowered my next defining moment. The job I had was at a dead end and needed to change. It was not going to happen unless I took charge. Once again it would take my making a difficult and risky choice. I left and started my own business that was highly successful and fulfilling.

These two defining moments have made all the difference in how I live my life.

My message is: Stand up for yourself. Take responsibility for your situation. Find powerful support. Put your oxygen mask on first; only then are you actually free to make positive changes for yourself and then have the capacity to help someone else.

I invite you to contact me for a free consultation and self-coaching tool.

Copyright © 2009 Eileen Joyce. All rights reserved.